The Step-Up Model
       Family Violence 
        Family Violence       Skill Development
     Prevention / Safety       Skill Development
      Prevention / Safety 
         in the home
          in the home Respect
          Integrate a   Respect
           Integrate a             Personal 
      Respectful Family             Personal 
       Respectful Family        Responsibility
             Model               Responsibility
             Model
                           Safety and Respect
                             Safety and Respect
          Respectful            Safety Skills         Shift Internal          Accountability/ 
        Communication                                   Process                  Empathy
         “I” statements         Safety Plan          Understanding              Restorative 
          “I” statements          Safety Plan          Understanding              Restorative 
        Assertiveness          Self- Calming            Cognitive,            Inquiry, Making 
          Assertiveness          Self- Calming            Cognitive,            Inquiry, Making 
       Problem Solving         Coping Skills            Emotive,                 Amends, 
         Problem Solving         Coping Skills            Emotive,                 Amends, 
           Listening           Disengaging             Behavioral              Accountability 
             Listening           Disengaging             Behavioral             Accountability 
                               from Conflict            Process                  Support 
                                 from Conflict            Process                  Support 
                 Strengths                   Solution                   Collaborative  
                  Strengths                    Solution                   Collaborative  
                  Based                      Focused                    Family Based
                    Based                     Focused                     Family Based
        UP     Curriculum
  STEP
  Building Respectful Family 
  Relationships
     RESPECT
  The Dalai Lama’s 3 R’s
  Respect for Self
  Respect for Others
  Responsibility for all your Actions